We had a weak start.....at best!

We took our feeble steps into the HotWife life style with much caution and hesitancy.  We did "ads" on Craigslist (don't do it)...OK Cupid and other sites.  It was scary and exciting to have men answering.  But it was scary and exciting for my hubby too.

One of the fist men I recall deciding to answer to (who's name escapes me), we will call Jeff...seemed nice enough.  He was married, but his wife was extremely over weight...and he didn't  have much of a sex life or romance...and desired so much more.  He was in book publishing and we had wonderful email exchanges.  So, my husband and I decided it was time...and I really thought I was ready for this next step as well.

We decided on a wine bar in between where the both of us lived.  As for my hubby and I ...we decided he would drive me and wait outside...or possibly come inside and watch from a far. 

It was all terribly exhilarating.  Walking into that bar I felt sexy and powerful and naughty and nervous!  All of it and more.

Jeff was very nice...we had wine and chatted.  But I soon noticed, he kept running his fingers along my foot and shoe....and wanting to talk a bit too much about what color toe nail polish I was wearing, etc...it was a little odd! 

At some point in the evening my husband walked in and sat well behind us at the bar and had a drink.  He was concerned for me...but I also think just liked watching me flirt and be on a date.
I liked having him there...in those early months, it made me feel so much safer.

The time went by...and I was thinking the date was done. So we walked outside to say goodbye...and he said he had brought me some books from his company and to come to his car...to which I said NO!  So he got them and came back to me...we kissed for a bit and I could feel that he was hard....he let his hands run a bit...but we were out in full view...and my husband was now across the street in the car.  So I said good bye.

Even though I would say the date was so so...and I never saw Jeff again...I got into the car on cloud NINE!!  I was beside myself and very gleeful!  It was so much fun and I felt ever so bad girl!  If memory serves me correct....my hubby got some very horny attention from me on the ride home and a whole lot of great sex as soon as we got home!

It was a first step....I wanted more of the thrill!  And more would come......